Shots Spreader Bar with Cuffs

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Standing Doggy — This is the same position, yet standing. Bend her over the bed, sofa, or table while she’s at your mercy. If you’re in one of those couples who like to keep the erotic play varied, this bar will suit you. It can be used to spread your arms and legs, but also, you can place it under your hips which makes missionary sex even better! Cheap adjustable spreader bars often won’t hold together securely. Allowing the partner to escape… and where’s the fun in there?

You also will want to discuss safe words with your partner before you begin. Since kink can regularly include roleplay and “I’m being forced into pleasure!” dynamics, safe words are odd, unrelated-to-sex words to signify that something is very wrong - and you aren't just roleplaying distress. While you might enjoy a “No, please don’t!” during your roleplay (when you don’t actually want them to stop!), saying “yellow banana!” can clearly mean something is up. Two, Three, or Four-point restraints. All bars have tie-down points on the far ends of the bar but some designs have one or two additional points for connection closer to the center of the bar for attaching wrist cuffs. Once you start getting into niche bondage communities, you might start to see spreader bars used in more creative ways - like between a collar and wrist - or between a wrist and an ankle. Short spreader bars - for thigh-to-thigh spreading - even exist.After care is another important aspect of BDSM and kink play. You see, spreader bar positions and kink play can be physically and emotionally exhausting. That means, if you’re the Dom in the scene, be careful how you move your sub. Be aware of the limitations of their limbs, and the way they would naturally move. Never try to pull, push, or twist their limbs suddenly or in the wrong direction.

Both are designed to keep your partner’s legs apart, making it impossible to close them. This offers you access to their most sensitive areas, which can be an incredibly intense and vulnerable experience for the receiving partner. Spread ’em. Read on for why you NEED to buy a leg spreader bar, how to use a spreader bar and some of the best spreader bar positions and ideas to try the next time you’re having sex. Using a spreader bar may seem rather straightforward but it’s best to look into how to use one properly before you get started. Go slow, maintaining open communication with your partner during the entire process to be sure they are comfortable and not feeling any pain. The following tips will ensure you are getting the most out of your spreader bar for the best experience possible. Getting adjusted Doggy — this is the most delicious position of them all. You bend her over and she’s forced to be fully exposed without escape. It’s more comfortable if she keeps her knees under the body to keep the bar out of the way for him to play. Especially powerful if you have a vibrator (like Magic Wand) that pushes her to a powerful orgasm. And she cannot close the legs even during orgasm spasms😉 Delicious.

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This option has the balance of sexy and romantic that typifies a lot of the toys from the Fifty Shades of Grey line. If wearing a gag or otherwise impeding vocal communication is part of your bondage fun, use a safe gesture (holding coins or a set of key to drop or throw, for example) instead of a word.

Once the ankles are secured in the ankle cuffs, have the sub bend over and attach their wrist to the spreader bar as well. Keep in mind that good flexibility is a must for this position for the sub to reach the spreader bar comfortably and maintain this position for the duration of the session. Double troubleAs with any sort of sex play, especially activities that involve bondage, you must agree upon and set a safe word. That’s because, kink play oftentimes includes role playing. Spreader bars are oftentimes used for BDSM positions and roleplaying, as the bars are a way of binding someone while leaving body parts open and exposed. People like using spreader bars for a whole range of reasons, from their position enhancing benefits to their restraint possibilities.